American Poly: The Podcast

Season 2 Episode 8: Do You Suit Up? Pro Condom or No?

Welcome everyone!  Season 2 episode 8 cover a pretty controversial, hot topic in the lifestyle...do you suit up?  Are condoms a must?  Matt and Julie tackle the topic with their own personal opinions and practices, plus discuss comments from friends who are in STD advocacy and public health.  They also mention their reasons for being pro-condom in the past, and how they plan to approach future situations.  There's a little bit for everyone here, along with information about where to find testing facilities, and how often it's recommended to go in.  Join in with your thoughts on the blog at www.american-poly.com or email us at Julie@american-poly.com.

Season 2 Episode 7: Breaking The Ice

Welcome to summer to all our listeners!  This episode is a great one for new beginnings, as Julie and Matt talk about how to start a discussion with your partner about opening your relationship to the lifestyle; be it swinging, or poly, or ENM.  There are so many things to think about first, and they touch on a few of the pro's and con's; as well as some key topics they think are pretty important to consider.  Join them for an in-depth conversation that includes a few examples of what NOT to do, as well as a little advice, J&M style!  As always, your comments and thoughts are encouraged on the blog at www.american-poly.com or direct at julie@american-poly.com.  Now, go soak up some summer sunshine!

Season 2 Episode 6: What Women Want - Lifestyle Version

Calling all guys (and gals!) who struggle to understand what women are looking for in ENM relationships and swinging situations....we have the podcast for you!  Join hosts Julie and Matt as they ask a panel of lovely ladies: what do you look for in a partner, what turns you on or off, what are your green flags/red flags, and also tips and advice for guys on how they like to be approached or flirted with.  This episode is full of laughs, teasing, and lots of flirting!  Poor Matt had his work cut out keeping all the girls on topic and focused....but we secretly know he LOVED it!!  There is sure to be a round two, and we would love to field some questions from the listeners, so please drop us a line at www.american-poly.com on the blog, or email at julie@american-poly.com.

Season 2 Episode 5: To Voyeur Or Not, That Is The Question?

Happy Spring everyone, and welcome to S2E5, this podcast covers a few different types of voyeurism in the lifestyle along with Matt and Julie's own experiences and thoughts about the fetish.  From cuckold to full swap, there is a range of situations and experiences that fit into this particular kink!  Join them and hear about their stories, and the reasons they like to watch each other; plus listen to the discussion about the range of emotions they have felt from jealously to excitement.  Are you a voyeur?  Exhibitionist maybe?  Does watching your partner excite you or make you feel insecure?  Share your thoughts and stories at julie@american-poly.com or at www.american-poly.com!

 

Season 2 Episode 4: Go For The Green! Relationship Flags

Ever heard someone say that something was a red flag in a relationship?  Or maybe a yellow? This episode talks about common red and yellow flags that Julie and Matt encounter in open ENM or swinging relationships, and also the green ones that they look for that make for the best partners and play.  What defines a red, yellow, or green flag?  That depends on your boundaries, your desires, and your unique situation.  Join Julie and Matt as they talk about their flags and what they encounter out the the dating world.  As always, your comments and opinions are important; please share them on the blog at www.american-poly or at julie@american-poly.com!

Season 2 Episode 3: Quad+ Communication and Dynamics

Join your hosts Matt and Julie for a great discussion about how their quad dynamic with Sam and Ashley communicates to each other and how they have adapted to now add John and Caroline!  This is a great episode about how they maintain the health of their quad+ relationships while managing time constraints and their own commitment to each other...which can get challenging!  If only we could invent a time machine...

As always, they welcome your thoughts and stories, please email at julie@american-poly.com or visit the website at www.american-poly.com!

 

 

S2E2 - Let's Get It On! Part 3 - The Best Lifestyle Play!

In the final episode of the three part series Julie and Matt posted a question to their Reddit followers...what makes for great play in the lifestyle?  Is it group sex?  Connections? Cohesiveness?  Listen in and hear their opinions, and a few of the responses they got back!  Wish you'd been able to comment too?  Have a fabulous story to share?  As always, reach out to them at julie@american-poly.com, on Reddit at julie_matt, or the website at www.american-poly.com. 

S2E2 - Let's Get It On! Part 2: When You Cockblock Yourself!

This episode could have been titled "lifestyle bloopers"!  Julie and Matt share stories of missed opportunities and misread signals; which end with them not getting to play!  Don't worry though, there are also a few good memories of when everything went right and the night was fireworks...:)  Also, they share some insight about expectations, and tips for reading the signals with a new couple in the lifestyle.  They love to hear comments, please feel free to email them at Julie@american-poly.com, or comment on Instagram @julieamericanpoly, or on the website, www.american-poly.com!

S2E2 - Let's Get It On! Part 1 of 3: Sensuality & Play Tips

Welcome to Episode 2 of Season 2!  This is the first ever three part series that Matt and Julie have put together; part one is all about sensuality and play tips for newbies.  They share their "go bag" contents (everyone needs one!), tips for first time play to set the mood, and to bring a little sensuality into the game.  Listen and laugh along with them as they discuss how to dial the heat up a notch or two with just a little bit of planning!

Season 2 E1: Every Square Inch of Julie and Matt

Hey Everyone!  Season two opens with a more personal twist!  All through season one you hear Julie and Matt talk about different topics within the ENM lifestyle from jealousy to how to say no thanks to a situation; now you get to learn more about who they are!  They share their backstories, how they met, and the dynamic of their relationship.  Ever wonder how they themselves started in the ENM lifestyle?  Listen now and find out!  Comments are always encouraged on the website blog or email at julie@american-poly.com!